Our expert says:
Where there are significant differences such as you describe, it would be wise before deciding to marry, to see a couples counsellor together and see to what extent such irritations can be worked out. And to clarify what you actually feel about each other. I get the feeling, from your message, that this may not actually be about love, but about your feeling that by now you "ought" to get married, and that after all this time, the marriage "ought" to be beteween the pair of you. This might not actually be the best idea for either or both of you.
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