Our expert says:
Time and extra challenges often result in couples losing the initial connection that initially brought them closer and attracted them to one another. Often individuals find the spark in someone outside a relationship and leaving the current one looks like the only and best option. It is however important to bear in mind that there are several factors to consider – you have children; you have a long term relationship that could possibly be strengthened with the assistance from a professional person; your long term relationship is loaded with reality while your “affair” has only the ideal to offer for now – the question is whether you are able to differentiate between love and lust. I would strongly suggest that you seek the professional assistance from a professional for either just yourself or even your marriage to explore what could possibly be done before you just file for a divorce – that would be the sensible road for you; your children; your husband as well as the lover.
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