Our expert says:
It doesn't sound as though the pair of you will be able to work it out without proper expert help. Why not discuss this with him, and consider seeing a marriage / couples counsellor together to see what is possible, without long-term committment other than to sincerely try to counselling option.
Otherwise, if you really already think it would be better for you and the girls to let him go and stay gone, maybe individual counselling would help you sort out your feelings of confusion
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