Our expert says:
Interesting how kids apparently need no driving lessons or driver's license before expertly driving mom up the wall !
Try to watch the Supernanny and similar shows on BBC channels on DSTV ( I wish there were good DVD's containing such material or a SA equivalent of the show ). As you seem to be at least trying some of the methods which usually work, see a child psychologist to review what is happening and to support you in a more rigorous, consistent and efecive combination of these methods to teach the boy discipline. Mabe a good GP or paediatrician could help the little one's sleep problems, and a more rested you would cope with the older one far better.
And you sound like a single mother, in that, though you refer in passing to "our 3rd son", you don't mention your husband, who needs to be part of the solution
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