Our expert says:
I don't see why she should feel so crushed --- there was nothing even remotely funny in what she did, which disrupted your job and might even have lost you your job. Its not enough, in life, not to MEAN or intend any harm, ; it's almost as bad to be so stupid as not to see that your silly actions opr words are likely to cause harm.
Do not apologise to her --- it was she who did wrong. But uf you care for her, say that though it was wrong and very upsetting for you, you don't intend to hold it against her, and want to sort it out --- on the weekend. And meantime, no more sudden meetings during the week. You are considerate towards her, and she should be the same towards you
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