Posted by: Nicolene | 2009-03-10

i think i am weak

I was once rejected by a man i loved - i was hurt for a long time. I now get a lot of men that pay attention to me and i just can'  t resist. I think i need help, please help,

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It is important that you seek counselling urgently to repair and reconcile your past rejections so that you can enjoy meaningful relationships and intimacy in the future .

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Posted by: yang | 2009-03-10

Hi nicole. This is not realy a issue about is a self immage problem. You loved the guy you felt rejected by and quistioned yourself about it.." what did I do wrong" . Giving in to these men that show interrest is a way you are trying to convince yourself that you are lovable and there is nothing wrong with you. But sex and sexual attention will never fill this need to find a way to accept yourself and find other things to full the emptyness. Do something for yourself...take art classes or get involved in a charity organisation. Focus on making friend of the same sex. Good girlfriends will help improve your self assteem.

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Posted by: David | 2009-03-10

Nicolene - you need to just be strong and TRUST. its something that alot of women struggle with - with the sex and guys - thats nothing, you just having fun, but if you love him, just try to trust him, i know its easier said than done given your history.

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Posted by: Nicolene | 2009-03-10

I am actually 30

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Posted by: big boy | 2009-03-10

Nicolene how old are you.Reading your second message it seems that you are under 20yrs.

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Posted by: Nicolene | 2009-03-10

Well, i don' t have a steady b/f and i have had sex with quiet a few number of men (used condoms of course) but i don' t want to continue with this as they do not even fulfill my sexual void. I feel empty afterwads although at the same time i get excited!

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Posted by: WTF | 2009-03-10

Nicolene........ what do you mean??? You weak???? Please give more info???? Do you want to SLEEP WITH ALL THESE MEN???

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