Our expert says:
Oh dear. That's an awful was to be feeling about yourself, though not a useful way. We all make mistakes in life ( I know that's a cliche, but nonetheless it's true and important ). Ultimately what matters most is whether we learn from our mistakes, and try in the future to at least make new mistakes. Repeating old mistakes is pointless and unpleasant.
OK, you've made some really bad choices of men to get involved with. It's better to be a bit lonely on your own, than not lonely but miserable with the wrong guy.
Maybe you place too much weight and hope on one single person, rather than working towards developing female and male Friends. Then there isn't too much hanging on any one relationship.
If you didn't cling to them so desperately, it'd be easier to let go when that is the best thing to do. Not all men are bad, not all women are good - and with only rare exceptions, men who cheat do so with a woman, who doesn't seem to have problems about that.
You're not pathetic or bad, and the men you haven't kept, weren't worth keeping
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