Our expert says:
WOw, so many very very long messages today, and indeed this busy week !
OK, you were naive and fell for a line from an experienced cheat and liar. Rather than wasting your energy on fury, learn what you need to learn and move on, better able to avoid being taken for a ride in that way again.
Face the central facts. You are enormously better off with him out of your life. He doesn't care, he didn't care, and he will not care. BUT, so long as you allow yourself to be angry or weepy about what he did, they more you are enabling him to continue doing it to you --- he has probably moved on with his grubby little life, but each time you become angry about it, in a way you have invited him back into your life and enabled him to do it again. Reject him, and discard those memories of him whenever they arise.
It wouldneed a consultation with a lawyer, but I strongly doubt that you could successfully sue him for the bad stuff he did to you --- and trying to do so would give him fresh opportunities to hurt you again, so I'm pretty sure it's a bad idea, however tempting it may seem.
Individual counselling is the way to go.
Leave him and ignore him. Such a grubby guy will inevitably turn his own life into misery without your needing to soil your hands by trying to help him to do so
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