Our expert says:
Whatever you shared in the past, that was THEN, and this is NOW. And presumably you had some good reasons back then to have rejected him. I doubt that it is compulsory for you to "have feelings" for him now, especially as you are maried and he has apparently moved on. YOu are probably having these feelings for a fantasy of what might have been, rather than for any reality --- move on, concentrate on your current life and mariage
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