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I hope other readers have some useful and supportive comments for you, soon.
Cobgratulations on being the good mom of a bright and hard-working child whose father, for some unknown reason, seems to under-estimate her without apparently recognizing that treating someone as of low ability often makes this predication come true.
It sounds as though your husband has significant problems, with sexuality and secrecy, and relaionships in general ( so relations via the net would suit him well, perhaps ).
He may be someone with low self-esteem ( which, in a way, can be infectious when they treat ohers in this way ), and to see money as the only measure of his worth.
YOu have, from your account, excellent reasons for self-preservation rather than self-harm. I can entirely understand why you would think of leaving him. Is there any chance he might agree to participate sincerely in marriage counselling ?
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