Our expert says:
Sounds like an uncomfortable relationship yet you have chosen to stay with him for 6 years. Whatever else is happening, it is unacceptable that she is buying things and running into debt without actually earning herself. Is she doing this to punish you in some way ? If it is HER debt, and SHE gets blacklisted, does that necessarily cause problems for you ?
She sounds not merely younger than you, but immature and perhaps lazy.
Couples counselling might be worth trying. If you separae, the decision as tyo whether you have access to the kids is NOT up to her, but would be decided by the magistrate after listening to your point of view. And he would also decide what maintenance you would need to pay, without assuming that she need not work and make her own contribution you should not have to pay more if she chooses not to work.
Get good legal advice, andconsider counselling
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