Our expert says:
I know that in many such cases, the hurt partner demands an explanation of WHY it hapened. I think the error buried within the question, is the assumption that such decisions are made deliberately, logically, and after long thought, possibly involving the use of a pocket calculator or computer program. THis is not, however, generally the case. In my experience, such really bad decisions are often made without proper thought and with no clear reason for which the one who errs is aware.
Wouldn't marriage counselling be a good idea, to air and work through all these issues together with expert help ?
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