Our expert says:
Fantasies often feel great, not having the disadvantages of real life. Bur has it really never occurred to you that many guys are happy to flatter a girl UNTIL they get them into bed, then dump them and carry on hunting ? Jumping rapidly into bed with someone just because you like the idea of them, and long before you really know them, is never a good idea.
Now stop giving yourself negative assumptions. Stop telling yourself "I can't get him out of my mind" - of course you can, but not while youre brain-washing yourself to be convinced it's impossible.
Lust, yes, infatuation, surely. But what is LOVE to do with someone who takes you to bed and then dumps you - what is there to LOVE in someone like that ?
Get busy and keep yourself occupied with work, hobbies, nopn-sexual friends ; volunteer to help with a charity or NGO - stop leaving yourself time to moon around fantasizing about a guy who used you, and at best, may use you once or twice more, before again discarding you like a used Kleenex. Get real ! Get more pride in yourself, and remind yourself that you are worth FAR mopre than him
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