Our expert says:
Straight or gay, he's crooked. He has been misleading you and maybe also himself. Nobody becomes straight, then bisexual, hen gay, then straight, then gay again. He sounds omnisexual, doing whatever he finds convenient at the time.
How he has treated you is cruel and despicable, whether his affairs were with men or women. You need good legal advice to protect your own rights. Stop blaming yourself and thinking about punishing yourself --- YOU have done nothing wrong, HE has. You deserve to free yourself of this louse, and to make a new and happy life for yourself and our child. Don't cheat either of you out of that. Sadly, its not about you ( though it surely feels that way ) he was drawn to someone else and naturally very different, not pushed away from you.
You didn't lose, and you can make this a victory for you and your boy. Your husband has lost, and desrviced that.
DO see a good local shrink for counselling to help you get through this patch. Remember the old saying that the best revenge is living well.
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