Home > Experts > Question Question Posted by: JR | 2013/01/31 I like this From Martha Beck!Now Try This! Think of the worst thing you’ ve ever survived. Describe it below. ... Then think of the next-worst thing. If you’ ve had a long and/or eventful life, you may be able to list several ways you’ ve been to hell: being jilted at the altar, having a miscarriage, developing tennis elbow, getting robbed at gunpoint, accidentally pressing “ Send to All” on a very private email involving photographs of your special body parts. Pick your top five, in order of awfulness. Though these experiences were dreadful, because they were dreadful, they are also precious. Pain gives our true nature an objective we can pursue with genuine passion. Whatever ways you’ ve been to hell, you can make the experiences meaningful by leading others out of the same grim spots. The most motivating thought for a suffering wayfinder is “ I can help other people who’ ve been through this.” This is a win-win-win idea. It helps heal the healer, transforms the tragedy itself into a gift of grace, blesses and repairs other beings, and radiates healing outward to the entire Great Self Not what you were looking for? Try searching again, or ask your own question Have your say Your name (optional) Your comment Security × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Search health advice Find an answer × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Reply to Your name (optional) Your comment Security Close Submit comment Recently: Asked Questions Answered Questions Commented Questions Chest pain Not sure if my boyfriend is in our relationship Flying with newborn Expired ED pills Scar on lower lip Cheeks are red 24/7 Scar on lower lip Fever of unknown origin with my Weimarainer lactose intolerant newborn Feeding newborn Hi im on depo for one month now and have gained 7kg despite of the fact that im using herbex slimming products.What can I di to stop the weight gain? My son and I If a girl swallows sperm, can she get pregnant? He called me filth Spiked drink advertisement From our sponsors Discover treatments that can help reduce acne What can I do to reduce or remove acne marks? Dementia and Incontinence: what you need to know WIN a R2000 Skin Renewal online store voucher!