Our expert says:
Promises are usually meaningless unless and until they are delivered in continuing actions.
He is an adult and can and must fend for himself - he may well not bother to do so, so long as you support and assist him.
Feel sad, to a degree, because you wish he was otherwise, but do not feel guilty or responsible for his own chosen failures.
Proper CBT-style counselling could help you to feel better about the wise move you have made, and to understand and avoid this repeating pattern
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