Our expert says:
Its remarkable how many really dreadful managers there, isn't it ? And a manager needs to be pretty useless to feel there's value in her telling workers that they are useless.
Apparently the other bosses werent very capable either, or they would have noticed her bad behaviour and taken responsibility for it. And presumably if there was an HR person or department, they were not very capable, either.
Maybe you needed to speak to a good labour lawyer, to protect your rights not to be harrassed, certainly before resigning.
Right now, its sounds as though you need and deserve to see a good personal counsellor, to free yourself from that bitterness. IN a very significant way, it means that you've packed that horrible person in your bag, and you're carrying her around with you. Discard her ! Yes, of course she is totally hateful - and I'm sure there are many other people who can and do hate her, possibly herself included.
But there's no point in your wasting your own time and happiness on hating you - it harms you and not her. Celebrate, each day, that she is no longer around and unable to upset you further. And find all there is to enjoy and succeed in, in your new job
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