Our expert says:
I'm pleased to hear you've found a way of feeling more peaceful. But I wonder whether this is the best way. When we are in a situation that is impossible to change, it can be wise to accept it, so that our resistance to something that won't change, doesn't become the source of all our discomfort. But if your wife refuses to be intimate, this is not normal, and she needs to see a shrink / counsellor to work on that. It is not fair for her to refuse to do so, or to refuse to see a relationship counsellor with you, because she knows that her refusal is not natural and not at all fair to you. If she flatly refuses to deal with this, maybe you should see a counsellor, to maintain your cool, but to explore the option of leaving her and making a happier life for yourself
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