Our expert says:
I wonder what she feels she HAD planned instead of getting stuck in the ordinary day-to-day grind that faces most of us ?
Whatever she found in this relationship with the other man, is not necessarily somehing she COULD not get from you, but something that for various possible reasons, she WAS not getting from you - and as any relationship requires two parties, its about what she was not giving as well as getting, too.
Wouldn't marriage counselling be a wise investment ? That way you can discuss these themes with her, in the presence of an expert referree, and she'd have a chance to admit to the more intense relationship that seems to have occurred.
Confrontation is grossly over-valued.
Would an open relationship actually be satisfying to either of you, on any lasting basis ? Wouldn't it just make your primary relationship harder to repair ?
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