Our expert says:
Work with a competent counsellor / therapist. You need to protect your own life and career - and that of your sister, and to recognize that while the anger is natural, attacking the wicked man would not help anyone, and would even delay the trial and increase your sister's distress.
Deal with the inner conflict with your therapist's help. And maybe there would be some opportunity in the trial ( where your support for your sister will be critically important ) to comment on your father's behaviour. I wish our courts more routinely allowed the sort of formal statements to court by the victims and families, befofre sentencing, that are used in other countries. Maybe it is possible, even if not routine.
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