Our expert says:
As you will have discovered, anyone who is not a self-starter, who is a lazy student who needs someone else to push them to study, will not succeed in their studies. ANd as a partner, is likely to be grudging and resentful if their partner DOEs work hard, and DOES succeed. He does indeed sound immature, and may really not be an ideal partner for a more mature and hard working person like yourself. Its neither surprising nor your fault if you don't feel like sex with a less mature and incompatible man. That's a sign of maturity, that sex has its place in our lives, but is not always such an extreme priority that everything else has to be ignore just to engage in some.
Maturity has surprisingly little to do with actual age ; I've known some shockingly immature 50-year-olds, and some awesomely mature 15-year-olds.
There is no way to sort it out if he doesn't see any problems, or doesn't want to sort it out.
Move on, you deserve much better than this
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