Our expert says:
Firstly it is important for you to embrace and celebrate the fact that you are a woman who loves her body and who knows what works for her to the degree that you experience such intense sexual excitation and pleasure to the degree that you experience "female ejaculation".
It is important to clarify factually that a woman does not "ejaculate" in that the term refers to the ejecting of sperm from the penis. As a woman you do not produce or ejaculate sperm.
What you are experiencing is the following: On either side of your vaginal opening you have two glands called the Cowpers Glands. These glands produce the lubrication that lubbricates the opening of the vagina and the surrounding area in preparation for penetrative sex. For these glands to release the lubricant the woman needs to be sufficiently stimulated and sufficiently aroused, which causes blood to flow into the vulva and cause swelling which then places pressure on these glands which then release the lubricant.
What happens for some woman (not all, and apparently not too many) is that when the woman achieves orgasm and the contractions it puts alot of pressure on these two glands and they then release lubricant in a projectile form, looking like an "ejaculation".
You can explain this to your boyfriend. Compliment him also and let him know that it is a compliment to him in that he is stimulating you so well and turning you on so intensely that you even "ejaculate" your lubrication.
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