Our expert says:
You don't have to "click" with everyone within a circle of friends. If the guy is a friend for years, unless his new gf is utterly horrible in specific ways, why can't you just tolerate having her around sometimes ?
WHY can't you stand being in her presence ? Terrible BO or bad breath ? All you sem to be saying is you haven't yet found anything in common between you - is that so appallingly offensive ? Have you really gotten to know her well enough to be so sure of that ?
Again, you sound as though you are over-dramatizing - how will her presence, among many other people RUIN your party ? It sounds as though nobody else has any problems with havin g her around.
Discuss this with your husband, and try to understand why you are reactin so intensely, and how this might be modified.
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