Our expert says:
One of the things that become clear in this forum, is that it is rarely wise to marry, or even enter into a close, child-bearing, home-sharing, relationship with someone you really don't know. This is why, in most cultures, there used to be a strongly-held custom of long engagement and involvement of parents and family, to make more sure that the partners knew each other and to reduce unpleasant surprises.
I also find a very frequent set of problems where the man has children by a previous marriage, and in a sense remains generously "married" to them rather than to his wife.
Its a very risky mariage where either partner, maybe especially the husband, feels that hi money and financial affairs should be a secret kept from his wife. That's not a real marriage, not even a business partnership. That's more of a master-servant relationship.
THink seriously about the future for you in this marriasge in which it sounds he shows little respect for you. Marriage counselling could help, but I'd fear that he would declare it unnecessary or refuse to take part.
The information provided does not constitute a diagnosis of your condition. You should consult a medical practitioner or other appropriate health care professional for a physical exmanication, diagnosis and formal
advice. Health24 and the expert accept no responsibility or liability for any damage or personal harm you may suffer resulting from making use of this content.