Our expert says:
Worrying that he lied by omission for some years, and took so long before admitting to thse basic facts of his life. Sounds like he wanted you to become more fond of him before finding out these - complications.
Its not at all uncommon for kids in this sort of separation to resent the new woman i their father's life, and to blame her for somehow stealing their father and harming their mother. He should have anticipated such problems and discussed things with them early on - ppresmably he took as long to tell them about you as vice versa.
That he is busy is absolutely no excuse for anything, and you urgently need to tell him about these developments and discuss these together in detail. No body deserves to be anyone's fiance while considering themselves "too busy" for such urgent discusions.
Excellent and wise comments fropm Woman and Liza
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