Our expert says:
Ignoring the issues is like ignoring it when your car engine starts making sinister noises while running. It increases the risks of being stranded somewhere unpleasant, and increases the costs of repair.
The trends you describe are not promising - that you do everything round the house and other ways in which you seem to show yourself as desperately keen to please him and avoid conflict or even reasonable expectations of him. This has led him to unrealistic expectations, and you to understandable but maybe unfair anger.
Surely the pair of you need to see a couples counsellor together, to understand each other better, to render clear and comprehensible the nest of unspoken expectations you both have, to work out whether you should work towards a future together, and ifso, how, and so on.
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