Our expert says:
Divorce support expert
Getting into a relationship for the wrong reason can seem like a trap one cannot get away from. It is good you know why did this though. Your self esteem was poor and you needed attention.
It is important to recognise this for you to move on. Staying in a bad relationship for the sake of the children may not be the answer in the long run. You will grow increasingly unhappy and resentful and so will your husband. For your children's sake, you both deserve to be happy separatly if you cannot be happy together. getting a divorce does mean losing your children. If you both can acknowledge that this marriage is not fulfilling and focus on the children's needs, you can reach an agreement that will benefit everyone.
It will be advised to seek divorce coaching to reach the best agreement for everyone.
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