Our expert says:
Getting irritable isn't unusual ; planing elaborate punishments, is. What you describe is childish, spiteful and ugly behaviour, and almost psychopathic in its cold-bloodedness. See a shrink for a proper assessment and advice which should include therapy to sort this out while you still recognize that it's wrong.
El's comment is natursl and fair, and its Mom, whining about EL, who is out of line and unhelpful. I don't believe that people who hurt others deserve to be protected from hearing how unpleasantly other people feel about folks who behave as they do. People with no respect for the feelings of others, cannot claim respect for their own feelings.
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