Our expert says:
I'm not quite understanding. Presumably your relatonship with him ended some time ago, if he now has a wife and children ? And as you yourself are now also married. Time travel is not possible nor practical, so you can't go back to what was, or what you thought was. He is committed to someone else, and so are you. You're right about how important it is for you to move on facing forwards and not backwards.
Sometimes in life you miss the bus. And running after it, in the dust, gets you nowhere except tired and dusty. And you have already caught the next bus, and he got out at the next station and is on yet another route.
See a counsellor to help you moce on if you are finding it too hard to manage on your own.
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