Our expert says:
Do remember that while you may indeed meet some nice guys while busy wioth a divorce, you will also meet some who appear to be nice but know that a divorcee is vulnerable and exploitable ; and that your emotions will be raw enouugh for some time afterwards to make any new close relationships risky.
Thinking of your ex, remember that you are remembering your love for what he was, not necessarily what he is or what he will be ; and that you are remembering the good PARTS of the relationship, and forgetting the presumably reasonable reasons you had for parting. See a counsellor, if necessary, to work through these uncomfortable emotions. Don't spoil future relationships by pining for what was but won't be again, and in paert for fantasies of what never actually wasm, but for what you wished had been
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