Our expert says:
Outlaws ? Or Inlaws ? There;s no reason why these leeches should have been allowed to live at your expense for so long, and they need to be told the gravy train has stopped, and its time for them to get off. Why are they so unable to pay for themselves ? Let them get work.
Stop paying anything for them - why should you pay their telephone accounts ? Who do they need to call at your expense ? R 2000 is an AWFUL lot of phone calls - what on earth are they doing ? They should talk directly wioth the phone company and make an arrangement to pay off THEIR debts, not you, and maybe they can arrange to remain connected just for emergency calls - police, fire-brigade and ambulance. Gossipping they can't aford.
And goog grief - why on earth does this old chatterbox need TWO lines AND a cellphone ? Who wants to hear from her and what on earth does she natter about ?
JUST SAY NO. NO excises are needed or helpful. Tell her she has no need whatsoever to chatter sop much on the phone, and if she can't afford to pay for it, she should remain silent. Tell her clearly neither of you will from here on pay ANYTHING WHATEVER for them, so they had better start working to cover their own expenses, and living within their means.
And do see a counsellor to learn how to say NO, not once a decade, but every time someone tries to expliot you as those two chameless people have done
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