Our expert says:
firstly: is your sex life really lousy (as you put it), secondly, why? Is there a problem of desire, erection/lubrication or orgasm with u or your partner and thirdly, does she also feel the same way. The fact that your’l love each other provides a good foundation for communication. If you don’t ask, you wont know. I advice that you confront your gf about how you feel. Consider seeking the expertise of a sexual health counselor or couples counselor if your’l are unable to identify the problem yourselves. Tell her what you would like in the bedroom and this would spur her to do the same. Its not fun or easy to fake orgasms so it shows you the extent to which she is willing to go for your happiness. Remember that it is possible for a female to be aroused even without penile insertion. I get the impression that’s seeds of resentment are being planted so I would advice you to act sooner rather than later if you want this relationship to work.
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