Our expert says:
Divorce support expert
your financial responsibility should be looked at separately from your emotional responsibility.
what were the custody arrangements at the divorce? How come you seem to have lost so much contact with your children.
You sound distraught by it and this tells me this is not out of choice.
How old are your children?
It is important that a relationship be maintained for everyone's sake. Try and talk to your ex-wife about it expressing the true nature of your concerns.
You children need you as much as their mother.
If no rational understanding of the situation is possible it is advisable that you see someone to claim your legal rights.
SADSA can also offer you a post divorce parenting plan through counselling/coaching.
All the best.
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