Our expert says:
Its very understandable that you feel angry. OK, when working and thus livin apart, one gets lonely - but that's not an excuse for infidelity.
I agree with qwerty - he has damaged your ability to trust him, and needs to EARN it back. This doesn't mean that you can or should never trust him again, but that he will need to work at behaving in a transparently honest and trustworthy way, to enable you to regain trust in him. How to do that, he needs to think about.
Marriage counselling could help - but obviously you'd need to be together for that. Is it esential that uyou both work so far apart ? or is it posible to find work within easier reach of each other ?
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