Our expert says:
I can't really understand why your marriage counsellor isn't working on precisely these issues with you, as they will be best dealt with by someone with the sort of detailed knowledge of each of you which surely this counsellor already has. I don't understand what seems to be his concept of keeping absolutely everything identical to how it is now ( ? including that wonderful sex ? ) with even a shared bank account, with the sole change being that you would no longer be actually legally married.
Discuss this with the counsellor and also with your own sielkunduge, to understand this rather odd suggestion better, and choose what would be best for you and the children
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