It isn't compulsory for you and your children to become involved in the life of this other child ; it IS comp[ulsory for your husband to get involved in maintenance and whatever is best for the child ; and do remember that the child is entirely innocent, and itm is the husband who was selfish and stupid.
I'm wondering a bit why you are so fiercely announcing your right to do what is so reasonable - is he insisting that you become involved with the new child ? What is he asking from you ?
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