Our expert says:
It is important that you don't allow your husband's more conservative ways to affect how you feel about yourself and that you internalise them and then feel that there is something wrong with your behaviour. You have said that it is difficult to discuss sex with him but he has mentioned that he feels that you don't touch him anymore. It would be good to be able to explain how you feel and that you are left feeling unsatisfied by his actions. It would important to mention how it takes longer for a women to become aroused and to reach orgasm and that you require more time and effective stimulation. Perhaps you could guide him to areas which you find to be most stimulating. It may be that you require more help within your realtionship to deal with this issue. For further information please consult SASHA’s website at www.sexualhealth.qw.co.za/dru. For referral to a professional in your vicinity, please send an email to firstname.lastname@example.org
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