Our expert says:
The problem and question you have posed here is complex and a response here would not address or resolve what you are asking adequately.
I strongly recommend that you consult a relationship therapist who also specialises in sex therapy. The challenges you are experiencing are situated in the relationship in general and then the sexual relationship.
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