Our expert says:
You may feel the way you do - it can inhibit your spontaneous 'sexcapades', BUT you will have to decide what is important to you. Is mother-in-law worth losing a relationship for? The best will be if you and your husband call a family conference and lay down some rules, e.g no room visists after 20h00. In this day and age, this is often an economical arrangement as pensioners battle to survive financially. If this arrangement is permanent , move her to another room. It is your house. If there is not another room, explain to her that if she comes into your room, she may see things she does not want to see OR lock your door OR play some loud music OR offer her some ear muffs. Perhaps if she hears you cheering on your husband's performance, she may change her mind on the living arrangements. Perhaps you deep down you want to punish your husband for his mother's intrusion in your household and therefor withhold sex - NOT A GOOD IDEA! Do a bit of introspection and get clarity on how far you are willing to sacrifice what is important to you. Deidre - SASHA
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