Our expert says:
If there were good reasons for separation, they are not changed by mere promises, and it usually requires serious therapy to change things enough to justify getting back together with any genuine expectation of things working out.
Don't allow him to lame you for what he chose to do - you didn't force him to take a mistress, nor to go back to her while pretending to be trying to heal your relationship.
How big of him to "give you a chance to fix our elationship" - it is never possible for just one of a couple to "fix" a relationship, especially not if the other is still cheating.
Letting go may not be easy at first, but i gets easier, and gives you the freedom to create a new and productive life, rather than depending on an undependable cheater
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