Sad, but at least he's been consistent for 10 years. Why he changed apparently clearly after marriage is curious, and his Peeping Tom activities in photographing other women without their consent, is plainly creepy, and could even be illegal.
YOU can't change this - its him that has a problem ( even if it causes you problems and disappointment ) If he recognizes that he does have a problem in intimate relations and actually wants to solve his problems, and will seek professional help and sincerely work with it, then its probable that things can be improved. Otherwise, there is nopthing that can or will be done, and if he refuses to acknowledge the problem or to seek help for them, then this is how things will stay. You may consider that grounds for deciding to end the relationship and to consult a lawyer, or you may decide to endure this and remain with him.
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