Our expert says:
THere are two issues here and I am not sure which one you want assistance with. The fact that your husband wears your panties and masturbates in them suggests that he has a erotic arousal to women's clothing. This is not that rare and does not necessarily cause problems in relations - but it can do.
The fact that he says you are stupid and worthless - well that hurts and I am wondering what else is going on in the relationship that he is being nasty like this? No one likes being called names, and especially names like this, so if there is no way of understanding what is going on, then I encourage you to try to encourage him to stop.
It may be that you would benefit from seeing a counsellor - it doesn't have to be sex therapist, a general counsellor would be fine too. Try to access one through your GP, your local FAMSA, or the SASHA helpline (0860100262).
Claire - SASHA
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