Our expert says:
SOunds like you're happy with the ways in which he controls himself ( jotdrinking etc ) bnut not happy when he tries to control you and especially your sons Could you persuade him to join you in marriage counselling ( hinting that it could help hiom control the relationship better ) ? Remind him that its not because he IS the problem, but because apparently he HAS a problem with oyour concerns, and vice versa. Otherwise, start with a personal counsellor, to examine your options in more detail.
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