Our expert says:
OK, most upsetting. I'm not totally convinced that one looks into old SMS in one's spouses phone entirely by accident, but that would be more of a problem to explain to him if you wanted to comment on whatever you found.
I'm trying to understand the geography when you say you "live 200 km from home" - do you work ( and live there while working ) 200 km from where your home with your husband would be, so he is alone there fopr much of the time ? Its hard to feel secure about what he might be doing if you were so far from him - but then you were close enough to look into his phone. Was he visiting ? Or do you live together, but "home" is where your parents and/or his are living ?
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