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Posted by: Wife | 2010/07/27

Husband and Sister Cheaters

DO I RESPOND TO THIS??

HI my sus, ek wil jou gou vertel. Dit was toe Jack een van sy verdwyn acts getrek het, ek het gebel om met jou te praat vol snot en trane en J het gese hy kom nou..... Wel die res is history..... Ek kan nooit genoeg jammer se nie...

Ek betaal baie duur vir my fout my sus, maar ek het gedoen wat die Heilige Gees gese het ek moet doen, Dit sou baie makliker gewees het om net stil te bly maar ek kon nie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My gewete is skoon en my hart stukkend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ek kan dit net nie verstaan nie, ek het al gedink en gedink, maybe moes ek jou se vir ''n spesifieke rede wat nog aan ons gewys sal word ek kan nie aan iets anders dink nie!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ek is vir altyd en altyd baie jammer in my swakheid het ek jou so seer gemaak!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Weereens vergewe my, my dierbare sus, jy het dit nie verdien nie.

Ek bid vir jou en vir jou huwelik ek vra net mooi, wees versigtig en bekyk die kat mooi uit die boom!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ek het vir Charl vertel wat gebeur het en hy se dit is die verlede en ons almal het ''n verlede, so hy hou dit nie teen my nie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lief jou altyd en altyd.....

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Ugh. Does she really believe that "die Heilige Gees" forced her to have sex with your husband ? Doesn't sound like any Holy Ghost I've ever heard of. Maybe she has a hearing problem ? And she declares that her conscience is clear ? What brand of household drain cleaner did she use to achieve that ?
She seems to have no form of conscience at all, and to take absolutely no responsibility whatever for her own choices and actions. It is NEVER right to accept a pathetic excuse for forgiving them, like "it's in the past, and we all have a past." Rubbish. 99 % of us, fortunately, do NOT have a past like hers.
She is not describing remorse, and all those tears are probably for herself, as she seems to feel so sorry for herself. She does wrong, and then considers herself a victim.
It may be worth sending a copy of this to your husband, and arranging a proper discussion of all of this as soon as practical.

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Posted by: C | 2010/07/28

Ek weet regtig nie of ek my suster of my man sal kan vergewe as ek in jou posisie was nie. Hoe gaan jy hulle ooit weer vertrou?
As my dogter my 7-jarige seuntjie om verskoning vra se hy altyd: " Sorry help nie" . Ek dink in jou geval help sorry defnitief nie.
Die Heilige Gees? What the f***?

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Posted by: Ruby | 2010/07/28

Ps: Nee, jy respond nie op haar boodskap nie want dis wat sy wil hê . Jy gaan niks daaruit kry om te repond nie, behalwe om haar beter te laat voel oor wat sy gedoen het. Haar boodskap verdien nie ''n respond nie.

Baie sterkte.

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Posted by: Ruby | 2010/07/28

" Blood is ticker as water" ??? Presies, so hoekom het sy dit aan haar suster gedoen?

Jou suster het jou vertel om haarself beter te laat voel, so, haar gewete is skoon (want sy het jou vertel) en nou is jy die een met ''n gewete en geheue en gebreekte hart.

As ek jy is, stuur ek haar en jou man in hulle MOER in en begin ''n lewe weg van sulke lae mense wat beslis nie vir jou omgee nie.

Baie sterkte. En nee, jy is nie ''n slegte mens as jy jou suster nooit vergewe vir hierdie een nie.

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Posted by: Amy | 2010/07/28

It is a tough one. Just becareful that she does not manipulate you cause it sounds that way. Some woman love using their tears, but tough most of it usually works on some men but not us woman. Im sorry for what has happened. But as JR said, wait a while. Sort YOURSELF out first and deal with YOUR emotions cause cheating in itself is painful and this still with your sister. Good luck!

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Posted by: GEEZ | 2010/07/27

HUH??? Hectic. Maybe speak to hubby first, your sister doesn''t sound all there! All the best, hope you can find a way to move forward

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Posted by: JR | 2010/07/27

Blood is thicker than water, maybe wait awhile and think it over before responding. I am sure there are more than enough emotions going through your head right now. Stay strong!

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2010/07/27

Ugh. Does she really believe that "die Heilige Gees" forced her to have sex with your husband ? Doesn't sound like any Holy Ghost I've ever heard of. Maybe she has a hearing problem ? And she declares that her conscience is clear ? What brand of household drain cleaner did she use to achieve that ?
She seems to have no form of conscience at all, and to take absolutely no responsibility whatever for her own choices and actions. It is NEVER right to accept a pathetic excuse for forgiving them, like "it's in the past, and we all have a past." Rubbish. 99 % of us, fortunately, do NOT have a past like hers.
She is not describing remorse, and all those tears are probably for herself, as she seems to feel so sorry for herself. She does wrong, and then considers herself a victim.
It may be worth sending a copy of this to your husband, and arranging a proper discussion of all of this as soon as practical.

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