Our expert says:
Rather than discussing an eithr/or dichotomy, have you talked about what reasons he considers important in deciding when to have another child ? If he says he feels insecure in his job - does he really expect to feel much more secure by year's end ? What would constitute "secure" for him ? What sort of factors makes him hesitate ? And express your ideas about how you think about the decision.
Be cautious abou seeing it as a necessary sign of his love for him to agree to a pregnancy now - if there are financial insecurities, etc., it could be rather loving to want to postpone.
Avoid anything that sounds like an accusation or putting him on the spot, and talk about the factors you both want to take into account in deciding.
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