Our expert says:
Its not clear from your message how well your OCD has responded to treatment, With the right medication PLUS CBT counselling ( which I'd consider essential hear ) you could potentially unlearn all the bad habits of OCD and live a normal life. And if his sister took 4 hours to do so little shopping, I wonder whether she has OCD or at least Obsessive Personality, too. Maybe he is scared, if there is OCD in his family, that together there would be a higher risk of your children also having the disorder ?
Its also not clear what your problem is about him visiting his married family members --- members of families do that --- why is it a problem for you ?
His explanation for not revealing this sooner is unconvincing --- how did he expect you to change from behaviours which suited you though the bothered him, if he didn't tell you about it ?
And as for the physical / psychological issue, some folks are skittish about relating to anyone with any sort of illness, and others aren't
The information provided does not constitute a diagnosis of your condition. You should consult a medical practitioner or other appropriate health care professional for a physical exmanication, diagnosis and formal
advice. Health24 and the expert accept no responsibility or liability for any damage or personal harm you may suffer resulting from making use of this content.