Our expert says:
Your experience seems to support my position that "forgiving" people who are doing wrong, when they don't regret having done wrong and when they can't be bothered to stop it or to make amends, is actually a foolish thing to do, and only encourages them to carry on behaving badly.
He isn't really a good guy if he keeps on doing this - he shows you absolutely no respect or consideration by behaving in this way.
See a counselor to help you cope better and to gain the self-respect to be prepared to leave him as he seems uninterested in changing his infidelity. And make sure you go to Maintenance COurt to require him to pay maintenance for his child. Far too many women in SA are tolerating bad behaviour, enabling some men to strut around fathering children wherever they please, without paying for the consequences of their actions
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