Our expert says:
It seems almost a law of nature, ( doesn't it ? ) that people who go through someone else's phone, usually find something that makes them unhappy. Maybe it's just that if they find nothing, or find something that makes them happy, thry don't bother to tell us about it....
What puzzles me more, is this sense of trophy collecting, in which someone having an affair or cheating, carefully keeps incriminating messages and pictures where they are likely eventually to be found.
Confronting is too fashionable a term, but you will want to talk with him about this, some time soon, but when you are feeling reasonably calm and more able to control how calmly you reveal what you have discovered, and how you probe for atisfactory comments from him.
Maybe Lifeline could help immediately - or don't you have friends yyou could chat to about this, to start working it through before you discuss it with him ?
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