Our expert says:
Good grief ! (literally ) This man sounds desperately depressed and in suicidal despair, and your reaction is to seek attention for yourself, elsewhere ? There are problems in the marriage, OK, but though you say it's awful for you, but you don't mention it is apparently worse for him.
Whoever lied to you by suggesting that ANY marriage is ever 100 % happy ? Life alone is never 100 % happy, either.
Please urgently and gently persuade him to see a good local shrink for assessment and to be frank in telling the doc all about his situation and felings. When he is better, consider marriage counselling for both of you. But for now,be a bit less self-concerned and a bit more of a good wife. Remember that bit about "in sickness and in health " ?
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